Vivien V. Neves
Hello, my name is Vivien V. Neves. I
am the mother of three wonderful adult sons. I have a great life. I
am pursuing all my dreams, I have more energy than when I was in my early
30s. I am loving my life and living it powerfully.
In 1989, when my youngest was three years
old I divorced his [their] father. While the
divorce was far from smooth, it was the best decision I could have made for
myself.
I made the decision to have a healthy life
for myself and to be a healthy role model for my three sons.
Being a single mom to three boys was tough but very rewarding. I
have had the great honor to see my sons turn into strong, responsible
young men.
My partner of eight years and I had the wonderful opportunity to raise and
co-parent a blended family of six sons. In
1995, my significant other’s son was murdered. Together and separately, we
went through many years of grief counseling.
I spent many years trying to support my partner rather than work through my own
loss. At that time, it was too scary to deal with my own pain. I now
know that if I had dealt with my own emotions; I would have been in a much
stronger position to support my partner’s grief and that of my children’s.
Over the years, I have experienced various life transitions.
Some of these transitions have been : going to grad (Law) school as
a working mother, divorce, being laid off from
work, taking and not passing the California State Bar Exam, changing careers, breaking up from a long term
relationship, the murder of a child, my mother's death, dealing with credit card
debt, the fall of the real estate market, my subsequent loss of income and the
loss of my home due to foreclosure.
Although these transitions were drastically
different, the way I coped with each event was very similar. What I did was shut
down and compartmentalize different parts of myself.
The deep emotional wounds were too much to bear. I
had learned to live life with the approach that “What didn't kill me,
was going to make me stronger.”
Thankfully through my journey of self-discovery, spirituality, education,
psycho-therapy, and hypnosis and emotional education through coaching has lead me to a place of great healing.
I now take the powerful lessons of my life's
journey and share it with the world. I am a Reiki Master
Teacher, Certified Success Coach & Hypnotist.
I help my clients see what actions (or
inactions) are creating the barriers to their own success. By creating an
action plan, priorities and timelines are set.
Each one of us intuitively knows how to get
where we want. It's just we don't take the time each week to consider how we are
going to get there. We simply put our dreams aside and become busy with
the day-today activities of life and set aside our inner yearnings.
Attaining our dreams becomes wishful thinking, like our childhood fairy tales
with the "they lived happily ever after" ending.
I help my clients step out of their own way
and achieve the life of their dreams.
My clients love me because I help access
that part of them that knows that they can “Have it all.” My clients create a balanced powerful life
they love.
